Happy Birthday, With Bear Hands!!!
My Etsy shop, also known as With Bear Hands, is one year old TODAY. So sweet!

my shop banner by the illustrious Heidi Gruner


To celebrate, I'm giving a 15% discount on all items listed November 15 through November 18. Just use the coupon code HBWBH upon check out.

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As my shop and I embark on year two together, I'd like to share some thoughts about Etsy.

When I first started my shop, I heard there are people out there who make six digits a year selling their wares on Etsy. A year later, I am nowhere near being one of them.

In the past year, Etsy records that I have made 26 sales. As sad as that sounds, thankfully, that number does not represent the actual number of sales I've had in real life.

Etsy is a wild and wonderful place. It is also complex, confusing, and sometimes a drag.

For me, it has been a constant reminder of my failures as I endeavor to be a business woman. I say this as a compliment to Etsy, as it has kept pushing me to work harder and hone in on what I'm good at selling. This journey of marketing artwork isn't easy. By nature, artists are not salespeople and should not have to be, but Etsy helps in providing a mask for artists to hide behind. We can project what we want on our shop; no one has to know if we are reclusive, awkward, crazy, shy, pretentious, what have you.

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My shop actually did pretty well when I first started it. People were ordering my mason jar paintings left and right from all over the country. One of those people was the Senior Vice President of Retail Development at Polo Ralph Lauren in NYC. He told me through a message, that he bought it while eating a bowl of soup during his lunch break. Somewhere on Madison Avenue, a man I don't know liked a painting of mine enough to buy it. That's freaking exciting.

It didn't take long to learn that my success was a result of poor attention to details on my part. In other words, I wasn't charging enough and therefore making no money.

Once I raised my prices, business slowed, and as a result, my shop sat dormant for a while.

Then, I sold nine paintings to one woman in one day.

Then dormant.

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While Etsy is about selling a good product first and foremost, that's not enough. It's also about the work you put into it. It's the type of thing you should chip away at everyday, not once a month like me. A successful shop owner spends their time everyday listing items, trolling Etsy for other shops and items they like, corresponding with other shop owners, and they are aware of the best times do all of these things.

The best thing for me has been to talk to other shop owners I know, asking questions and getting their advice. We can work through our hardships together. It's a difficult thing, putting yourself out there, selling work you've made, but knowing someone else is doing the same thing helps.

So here is some more concrete advice for Etsy beginners, some I've learned and actually go by and some I'd like to go by as I enter year two with With Bear Hands:

1) Focus on one or two types of items to sell. It helps you not get overwhelmed and it helps the customer to know what you're about. I'm still working on this one.

2) Find a successful shop and copy them. Yes, I said it: Copy them- Not their products, but their techniques. The shop I go back to is The Black Apple. She has all ready paved the way, so I can use her shop and blog as a resource on prices, aesthetics, etc..

3) Quit selling things that don't sell. Figure out what people buy from you often and stick to that. This goes hand in hand with number one. At the same time, give items a chance. Some things that sit for a while may still sell- they're just waiting for the right person.

4) Offer different price points for products- have things under $10, under $20, and so on. People who like your stuff may buy something small in the beginning and come back for higher priced items later. I finally started making more affordable prints of my paintings and it's turned out to be a great decision.

5) Sell outside of Etsy- sell at markets, consignment shops, fairs, festivals, gift shops, art openings, anywhere you can. You have to get your name out there. If I hadn't done this in the past year, I probably would have given up on Etsy.

6) Always have a business card on you that links people to your Etsy shop.

7) Someone told me I should list 3 items a day. That's not going to happen, but one item a day would be a good goal.

8) Take the best photos you can and have five photos for each listing.

9) Blog about your items. The more presence you have on the web, the better.

10) Be patient. You won't become rich and famous overnight. And if you do, I don't want to hear about it.

Happy Birthday, With Bear Hands. I am proud of your humble beginnings.
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November Events at the Birdhouse
My paintings will be up the month of November at the Birdhouse. Because they don't have regular hours, I'll post their events here so you'll know when they're open. You can attend their events and see my work. Hooray!

They will be open this Saturday from 11-3 for the Mama's Market. I'm unable to go then, but it sounds like a good time.

They'll also be open next Monday night, November 14, for the Walk-In Theater where they are screening Alfred Hitchcock's The 39 Steps at 7pm.






















In other news, I'm heading to Jonesborough, the oldest town in Tennessee, this evening for the East Tennessee Preservation Conference. Don't be jealous.

The Birdhouse
800 N 4th Avenue
Knoxville 37917
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Monday Funday Giveaway
The opening on Saturday night went very well. Good people, good food, encouraging words- I'm very happy with it. It meant a great deal to me for those that made the effort to come out, so, thank you.

If you didn't make it Saturday, the show will be up until November 30th, so stop by the Birdhouse for another event this month to see the work. I'm in the process of finding out about holding open hours there, too, so be on the look out for that. Also, don't hesitate to contact me and I can let you in the space. I WANT to show as many people these pieces, so just let me know.

I will write more about the work later but am anxious to announce the winner of Saturday evening's drawing to win a Beth Meadows original.

And the winner is, with Per-Ole Lind as my witness...



!!!!!!!!!

Bethany, it warms my soul that you are the winner. I would like you to take your pick of the following, any time you are ready...



Canoe 2011
embroidery thread, acrylic on salvaged screen



IGA 2011
tin ceiling tile, graphite, colored pencil, marker






















Reading Poetry by the Danube: A Peaceful Respite Between Two Sisters 2008
acrylic on canvas



or pick a house drawing from my show in September.


Happy Monday Funday, everyone.
Exit Show
This Saturday*, November 5, I'm having an art opening at the Birdhouse** in Knoxville. It's from 6-9pm, and you are invited.

This is a big show for me, and I'll tell you why.



1) I haven't had a solo show in a gallery in almost four years. The Birdhouse is not solely dedicated as a gallery, but it's closer to it than a coffee shop, restaurant, or small corridor, places I've been showing the past few years in Knoxville.

2) I've made seven paintings in the past two months. That's worth celebrating!

3) Many of these paintings have been on my mind for some time, and I've finally been able to put them on canvas. It's so fun to finally see them.

4) While some of the ideas I've painted have been around for some time, others came to me in the past month. I've finally found the time to paint ideas right as they come, which is not a luxury I've had in the past.



5) I've been able to delve into and include certain elements I enjoy in architecture, fashion, film, literature, and music. I mixed these things with the style I've been developing over the past few years. I'm making decisions as I go along, letting the paint respond to the initial idea.

6) I see this, and hope it turns out to be, one of my last (solo painting) shows in Knoxville for a while. The idea all along has been to take these paintings other places. I am dying to show in other cities, so if you have any advice on how to do so or have contacts in other cities, please email me. I'm a slow learner with these things, so I can use all the help I can get.

7) In regard to the opening, I'm buying food, beer, and will be present to mingle and talk about whatever it is all of you want to talk about. I don't do a lot of hostessing these days, so I'm looking forward to it.

If you are in Knoxville this Saturday evening, please come out. I want you to be there!!

*Not First Friday, but the day after!
**The Birdhouse
800 N 4th Avenue
Knoxville, TN 37917
Saturday, November 5, 2011
6-9pm

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I can't help myself
I need to get something really important off of my chest.

I do NOT like Beyonce's new music and realize that maybe I never liked her old music either. Granted, I only hear what's played on the radio, and I try to listen to her songs all the way through, but I can't! Her voice, her lyrics- I can't stand it!

Even her old music that I kind of got, there is always a part that makes me cringe.

It bothers me because I'd really like to like her. She dances like awesomeness, and her music has potential, obviously. I'm just waiting for her to quit annoying me to death.

... ok... I feel better.

In other news, my guilty pleasure is listening to Rihanna, and if I could ever look as awesome with orangey-red hair, I'd do it.

Also, Halloween party discussion around the urban, starter-log campfire last night was about Brittany Spear's come back. She did it, y'all. She came back from the dead.
Facebook: Too Much, Not Enough
Facebook has me all flummoxed again. Bear with me as I delve into the matter, and try not to let these thoughts infer how I must feel about you.

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Lately, I've felt the need to "de-friend" certain people that I've been close to at certain points in my life but are no longer. It's only a handful of people, but it still means something to me.

The nature of my friendships and relationships are changing. Boys I was once very close friends with are now married. Girls I used to see multiple times a week have boyfriends or husbands and have dropped off the face of the earth. Couples are having babies, old boyfriends have girlfriends (or boyfriends), and many single people I know go out a lot while I'm beginning to stay in more and more.

My point is not to expound on how all of this makes me feel but to express that times are changing, and it makes me think about the natural ebb and flow of friendships and relationships, and how a thing like Facebook counters that. In reality, people move in and out of our lives at different times, and this is healthy. It's strange, however, that now when someone moves out of our real lives, we are able to read on Facebook what they ate for lunch or see pictures of their wedding to which we weren't invited.

If we could, I'm sure we'd remain friends with everyone we'd ever been friends with or dated in the past, but life doesn't offer that. Even as we accept this natural, sometimes difficult,  progression of real life relationships, Facebook throws us a curve ball.

It may just be me, but it doesn't seem right that someone who won't return my phone calls would write on my Wall to tell me: I've been stalking your photos. Looks like you're doing great!, Let's hang out soon!!, or I miss you!!!

It also feels unhealthy to have the ability to see my ex-boyfriends' engagement, wedding, and/or baby photos.

With most people, the superficiality of a Facebook friendship doesn't bother me, and there are different reasons for this that I won't explain now. Concerning a handful of others, however, it's become problematic. I find myself looking at their photos, scrolling through their wall, and a sadness and sense of loss overwhelms me, even if only for a few minutes.

I've gotten to the point that as soon as this behavior begins, I remove these people from my Facebook friends. While it feels like a necessary and healthy thing to do, it also makes me feel... silly. When someone fades from my real life for reasons out of my control, I have to make the conscious effort to remove them virtually as well?

I worry these people will see that I've de-friended them and conclude I dislike them, but reality is the opposite. To "de-friend" is a weird way of saying, "I liked/like/loved/love you too much to merely be your Facebook friend."
Hi Tec
In response to my friend Amelia bringing back Timberlands, I've decided to start sporting Hi-Tecs.

I found these lil puppies a while back at a thrift store and finally wore them for the first time today. The color scheme is simply breathtaking. 



In other news, two different people in the past two days have sent me emails about fat cats. I must be developing a reputation for liking this sort of thing.

My friend Alice sent me the photo below. It made me laugh because when I lived in Maplehurst, Juicy would sleep over at neighbors' apartments and they would feed her. I finally wrote on her collar:  LOOK AT ME. I'M NOT HUNGRY. PLEASE DO NOT FEED ME.

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